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Smart, successful and want quick results in your dating life and in your relationships!
You are frustrated you haven’t met someone you have a spark with!
You are wondering why it didn’t work out with someone you liked!
You are tired of wasting time on someone who doesn’t commit.
You feel like you know what you should be doing, but just don’t do it.
You are unsure how to get results as dating has changed.
You are just not getting the results you want.
You are tired of going to social events on your own.
You want to take your dating life and relationships to the next level.
You want inspiration.
You want to become the best you can be.
You want to bring back the fun into your life.
You want to be accountable for your actions.

Is it easy to put together a plan and get results in other
areas of your life, but, you have no idea how to do this when it comes to dating and relationships.

You are beyond frustrated that you are not getting the results you want and deserve.

If you are ready to do what it takes 

Then it’s time to take action.

If it’s a YES for any of these questions then
 Spotlight Coaching is for YOUYou

I’m a Relationship Coach and I’ve been doing this for over a decade. In that time I have worked with thousands of singles who have achieved real results. I’m consumed with empowering people to be successful in love, dating and relationships.

I have the bigger conversations that change lives. I’ve been where you are and not in a vague, ‘Oh, I get it,’ kind of way. I’ve seriously been where you are and my motto is that it’s never too late to have the life you have imagined!

Debbie Rivers

You are smart, savvy and you want quick results!

I know that you are successful already in your life but it is often just that half a step you are missing or that 1% change you need.

I cut through the crappy dating advice that is out there that doesn’t work! You know all the weird stuff you are told you should do that doesn’t even work. I give you practical answers on what to do when it comes to all things dating and relationships.

I know that you didn’t think it would be this hard! And you definitely don’t want to waste your valuable time making the same mistakes again.

I understand how you feel. I have been there too and helped many singles just like you get results.

Truth? Love is not the Problem!

You know all those stories you’ve been telling yourself about how you’ve missed your chance, that you aren’t good looking enough, that you’re too old, too fat, too grumpy, too intimidating or too much to find love?

Well, they’re BS, and it’s those stories that are the REAL problem.

I’m going to show you how and why and what you can do to turn this around!

I will work with you to clear your conscious and unconscious blocks as well as any self-sabotaging behavior that pushes love away.

I also act as a sounding board with practical solutions to clear those roadblocks and bumps in the road to love.

Spotlight coaching with me gives you 12 months of UNLIMITED coaching support. It’s a low investment of $2197 AUD for a WHOLE year of high-value support so you can grow and overshoot your goals.

You get UNLIMITED ACCESS to me for one WHOLE YEAR! This is consistent support to get real results.

What happens if you meet someone during the year?

Don’t worry if you meet someone in the meantime, this is the time when you will need the extra help to work through new relationship challenges or questions! Like:

  • How to create a strong, healthy relationship that lasts.
  • Navigating challenges that come up – these will be unique to you.
  • Identifying self-sabotaging relationship patterns.
  • Identifying if the relationship will work and if they are the right person for YOU.
  • How to have strong, healthy communication.
  • Is this normal?
  • What to do when you have fears in your new relationship? When you have been hurt in the past it can make it difficult to trust.  Will this person cheat, control, manipulate or let you down?
  • Help you deal with over-analysing everything.
  • And anything that comes up that is unique for you. 

Finding the right person is the first step. The second step is building a strong, healthy relationship on a foundation that lasts. Even if you have worked on yourself new relationships will always bring up stuff you don’t realise is even there. New relationships bring up the baggage you thought you’d dealt with. I will support you through the bumps in the road to love.

Coaching support gives you the best way to create and maintain the relationship you want.

  • Spotlight coaching is ALL about YOU and YOU getting results.
  • You get to work with a coach with over a decade of experience.
  • Trusted advice, support and tools.
  • A Coach for men and women who will give you a unique understanding of the opposite sex and what works.
  • 12 months of coaching offers you consistency. and time to put what you learnt into practice.
  • It is high value, low cost and action-based.
  • You will have a “rule book” for you to keep, full of everything we work on.

Spotlight Coaching 2021


12 months coaching support to give you the best way to create and maintain the relationship you want.


John, WA

I was frustrated that I wasn’t getting results with the girls I wanted to date. I tried watching YouTube videos, which gave me information but didn’t really change things for me.

I decided I would do Spotlight Coaching so I had the support to get real results. I started coaching with Debbie on how to be more successful when it comes to meeting and talking to women. I honestly can’t believe the real difference it has made to my whole life and not just dating.   I listened to Debbie’s advice and to start with didn’t believe what she was saying.

Debbie gave me a clear, honest perspective on women and what will work and what won’t. I was cynical but went out and tested her advice and she was right. As a result, my confidence has grown and things have changed. I am now confident talking to girls and that has changed everything for me. In fact, I am now in a relationship with the type of girl I always wanted!


Lily, USA

Relationship coaching with Debbie honestly changed my dating life immensely. I am not typically the type of person to seek coaching, but meeting and working with Debbie was such a blessing! She has a clear breath of experience, as we did most of our work over the phone/skype, because I don’t live in Australia, but still got results.

Her guidance focuses on internal growth, from an authentic, individualized approach. In my case, I wasn’t interested in attracting more people but attracting the RIGHT person, which she honed in on immediately. We took a deep dive into examining my patterns, motivations and behaviours towards relationships, and from this understanding, I believe I was able to effect lasting change.

I cannot recommend her enough, and ultimately I believe her guidance led me to the happy relationship I am in now! If you are hesitant, go for it – one of the best things that has happened to me 🙂


Here’s the boring qualification stuff, because I know that matters too!

I am an internationally accredited Relationship Coach. and I have spent time learning everything I need to know through study and life experiences. In fact, I’m continually learning the latest advances in dating, relationships as well as how your brain works, especially when it comes to love, so I can give you cutting edge tools.

My unique approach looks at your conscious and unconscious behaviours and how they get in the way of opening your heart and letting someone in. My approach applies behavioural science, neuroscience, communication and attraction strategies that will give you everything you need.

I am a Certified Practitioner in Coaching, Completed Level 1 and 2 Training in Gottman Method Couples Therapy, a Master Neuro-Linguistic Programming Coach, a Certified Master mBIT Coach (Europe) and a Certified Matchmaker with the Matchmakers Institute in New York.

Where we’ll meet

We will hang out in a zoom room together. Our initial session will be 1 hour, so we get to know each other and then each session will be 20 minutes.

Each 20-minute call will be to work through your particular challenge. Let’s call it a roadblock!

Whenever you have a roadblock question you will book a 20 min coaching call with a link and we will clear it within that time frame. You will get a cheat sheet from the meeting and have a task to complete on the roadblock.

Before you can book another coaching call you MUST take action on the first task.

When you complete the task you can book another coaching call. Providing you have completed the task, the 20 min coaching calls are unlimited over the 12 month period. You will also have email access to me.

What you’ll get/learn

You will have your own personal coach at your side throughout your dating and relationship challenges for one WHOLE year. You will get consistent valuable advice and support that isn’t about making you feel better but about getting real results. You also get a unique insight into how the opposite sex really thinks.

You will learn about yourself and how you work so you get your results fast.

We will clear your roadblocks quickly, take action and ensure you are held accountable for taking action and achieving those important goals.

You’ll have a collective record of your roadblocks and how you easily clear them for the future. It will be a record book of YOU and the 12 months of sessions will become your rule book to taking action and overshooting your goals.


  • Help you walk away from each session with a clear understanding of your blind spots.
  • Give you clear actions to take and personalised tips to make your dating life fun and easy.

Over the last decade, I have worked with many people to achieve the success they had only imagined.

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